Tired & Some Thoughts

Tired:

last nite i slp at 6am. so tired. i woke up like 1pm todae. nono. i woke up @ 1030 to send a gd mrnin msg to my dear, i was waiting for her reply den i fell aslp le. hahas. i woke up ard the time she replied me which is ard 1pm todae. hahas. am still feeling so tired.

as usual, i din study as soon as i woke up. was 'nua'ing ard until i need to go for my last RT session le. i noe u guys gonna sae me, but yes i'm physically unfit nw. so i noe tat i need to train. but not nw, at least aft my exams. den i'll go exercising with my dear girl. sometimes it is gd to exercise with someone u love, the feeling will alw be great when u are exercising with yr partner. hahas.

my bro/gd fren called me todae, he told me abt his prob with his gf. i'm not sure whether i shld write it out. so i dcd to stop here.

My thoughts:

i realise tat relationship problems will alw be there, but it ultimately depends on how the two deal with it. either one gives in or both reach a compromise or even better, both find a win-win soln tgt, it will result in a fruitful relationship.

but one cant be so selfish, alw askin the opposite partner to do the things tat he/she likes. it feels as thou the opposite partner is being held tightly by him/her, resulting in no freedom. wat if one day, the opposite partner cant take it anymore, and he/she may leave the selfish person. and both ended up in an undesired outcome. i noe tat none of us wud like this to happen, rite?

over a few probs tat i hav faced, i hav realised tat i need to listen to my dear and she oso needs to listen to me. both of us need to think abt each other context not jux yr own context onli. when one onli think abt his/her context, it means tat the person is selfish. i'm still tryin to improve on tat, tryin to think more on my dear's context and not alw on my own.

sometimes the opposite partner can be overbearing at times due to certain reasons but the partner mux alw be accommodating to him/her. this allows him/her to be his/herself at that pt of time, coz one wud wan to be his/herself at some pt of time. y cant u be the one to provide him/her tat?

sometimes the opposite partner may not wanna tell him/her abt his/her problems, u cant force him/her to tell u wat's the matter. mayb ask once or twice if he/she still dun wanna talk abt it den dun force it alr. not gd, coz he/she may find it irritating den resulting in a quarrel b/w u two. undesired outcome agn. however, sometimes the opposite partner jux wish tat u are right by his/her side w/o asking any qns, letting him/her to think things thru. it is the accompaniment tat matter the most, not tryin to pry into his/her problems. aft 'pei'ing him/her, he/she may tell u the problem tat he/she is facing, allowing u to noe the reason y they are moody. isnt this a gd soln?

one oso cant alw ask whether the opposite partner misses or loves u or not. some may find it irritating if one keep on asking these qns or they may jux say it to make u feel happy but they din mean wat they hav said. from wat i realised, jux tell the partner tat u love/miss him/her as per usual but dun expect anything in return. the opposite partner will reply u if he/she felt like it. sometimes the feelin when he/she says it will make the feelin feel even better.

i hav come to realise these stuff, most of the stuff tat i've realised originates from my dear girl thru our conversations with each other. we are both learning at the same time, i think it is a great thing to do - not by having quarrels every nw and den but to learn from each other. hahas.

if i do realise more, i'll write it down for u guys to see and pls do giv me yr comments. i wanna noe if i'm thinking the rite thing.

tats all for nw, imma go down to chit chat with my fren awhile.

to law: i noe it is over 12am yr time, i jux wanna wish u a happy 22nd bdae! hav fun on yr bdae!

to dear: study hard dear! ily!